Although all subs are special, some are more special than others. Here is the Subbie Hierarchy, which shows how I rank my subs and allocate my time, devotion and attention.
VIP subs
VIP subs are subs who go above and beyond to please mistress. If he sees that mistress is cold, he will proactively look for a blanket. He’s the type of sub who will get hot tea if mistress has a cold and will offer a foot rub if he sees that mistress has been walking in high heels all day. If he sees a nice item that mistress would like, he will surprise her with it. VIP subs are generous, straightforward, sincere, and committed to collaborating with mistress so that the d/s dynamic is more nurturing, warm, and intimate. VIP subs get special access to me. VIP subs get to see me on webcam, see more pictures, and have more phone time with me. Additionally, these subs are the ones most likely to have special privileges and requests granted. If you want to be a VIP sub, you have to be proactive. Enthusiasm and generosity distinguish the VIP subs from the other subs.
Stellar subs
Stellar subs perform exceptionally well. They are direct, truthful, and fun to be around. While the average sub does the minimum to please mistress, the stellar sub gives stellar levels of effort. He is also better at following directions and listening to feedback than the average sub. Although the stellar sub isn’t as original or creative as the VIP sub, he is competent and willing to try new things. Unlike the VIP sub, he rarely comes up with ideas on his own. However, when he is given a task, he does his best to make mistress happy. Stellar subs tend to be responsive, as opposed to proactive. They are pleasant, open minded, and generous on occasion.
Average subs
Average subs are straightforward, friendly, and honest. They keep their commitments, clearly express their limits, but tend to stay within those limits. Average subs are average. They do what is expected of them, but nothing more. They tribute the minimum, and are the least likely to tip or offer a surprise gift. They are the least likely to try a new activity outside of their interests. They are reasonably intelligent, but tend to be more analytical and rigid in their approach to d/s. Average subs are generally reactive and passive. They are good natured, but are more of a fetishist than a submissive.
I didn’t include “bad subs” or “annoying subs” because I only play with subs that I like trust, and respect.
You are probably wondering if it’s possible for you to be a VIP sub with average means.
Some of my subs are wealthy and successful in their vanilla lives, but wealth isn’t a prerequisite for servitude.
I value consistency more than anything. If you have limited means, but consistently serve and tribute, I’ll look upon you more favorably than the rich sub who serves and submits to a new mistress shortly after.
I prefer relationships over routines, and value the connections I have with subs who are warm, open, honest, and caring.
Of course, there are minimum standards of satisfaction. At the very least, be an average sub. That means honoring commitments, having a pleasant attitude, and clearly stating your expectations and boundaries.
If you want more from mistress, you have to give more in effort. 😉
No matter your current ranking, there’s always opportunities for advancement. 🙂 You can begin climbing up the ranks quickly with a surprise present.
If you want to surprise me with a gift, you can choose from one of these retailers…
Yoox + Nordstrom + Bergdorf Goodman + Dillard’s + Zappos + Victoria’s Secret + Lancome + Sephora + Overstock + Hotels.com + American Airlines + Uber
and send an anonymous gift card to the e-mail listed below.
And if you’re super worried about privacy, I accept old school gift cards, preferably Amazon which are located in the gift card aisle at your local pharmacy such as CVS, Walgreens, Rite Aid, Walmart, etc. Simply buy it with cash, then scratch off the code and e-mail it to me.
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